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You know how sometimes, every now and then, sex can light you up? Sublime, intense, shattering sex that leaves you wrecked and soaked and scratched and bruised and so happy you could cry?

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Intensity does, and kink is one possible way for me to get a hit of that drug. Unless I specify a particular kink by name, just figure I mean it as a placeholder for anything that falls outside the sexual mainstream, whatever that is….

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While Mallin genuinely enjoy kinky, filthy filth, the intensity I want is a product of dynamic and connection, informed by, but not dependent on kink.

I like it when sex is the unpredictable product of impulse and instinct. I like it when sex surprises me. Kink or no kink, I love Technicolor Women wants real sex Malin. I had a brief conversation the other day that got me thinking. As a high-alpha male, I appreciate strong women. Dominant women are a rare challenge. I love Women wants real sex Malin work — it gives me a lot of insight into how strong women Looking for sex Thredbo. Unfortunately, those three sentences annoyed the fuck out of me so I responded with this:.

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Strong women rock in all kinds of ways because there are all kinds of ways in which women are strong. Let me rephrase that. He wants to be the very special, uber-alpha male who breaks an unbreakable woman and makes her submit. The first is that it devalues the actual submission of actual female subs many of whom are fucking bad-asses.

The third is that this appreciation for strong women is entirely ego driven. That particular appreciation for female strength Woken nothing to do with respect or actual, you know, appreciation. I have a button here. Essentially, this kind of attraction turns a very specific form of female strength into fetishized commodity while dismissing all the other ways in Malinn women are strong. It has nothing to do with the woman or her dynamic with that man. It has to do with the ego boost that comes from fucking her in a particular way.

Every Adult wants real sex Wanatah Indiana does not crave submission, and those that do should have autonomy within their submission. If a dominant woman or man trusts you enough to submit to you, even if only for a night, that should speak to the connection and trust between you, not to Woemn prowess as an alpha. Fetishize power in a partner. I realized after I posted this that I should clarify some terminology as usage in that conversation got fairly muddy.

All alpha means it that someone has what might be called a dominant personality. Some alphas have personalities that are more dominant than others, as do some betas, etc. Alpha, dominant and Dom are often equated in casual conversation, which is fine insofar as it goes.

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Some of the strongest women I know are subs. That post got a lot of generous responses from men and women all over the sexual spectrum, including Exhibit A though I had no idea at the time it would begin much more than a correspondence. So I set the question aside to think about it.

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This Women wants real sex Malin to the common perception that men are sexually dominant ie: And it does all this by appropriating a somewhat romanticized version of what people imagine happening when two guys fuck. Hopefully in less than two years.

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Homoeroticism, whether engaged as fantasy or more directly, is one way of experiencing a fuller range of sexual possibilities than might otherwise be available to strictly heterosexual pairings. Ultimately, humans crave understanding and connection. We want to know and touch. That irrational part of me wants to keep her a rdal forever. But the rest of me knows that, for all that I love and Milf personals in Weippe ID her, the best thing I can do is to teach her how to love and protect herself.

My claim on her wsnts last only as long as it takes her to grow up and claim herself.

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Right now, the list is full of things I wish I could have talked through with my mom; things to do with sex, identity, body image and shame; things that I figured out on Women wants real sex Malin own, sometimes at great cost. If I do it right though, the list will stop reflecting my own experiences and become entirely defined by hers.

In eeal end, it is not about me.

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That said, the list as it exists is massive. It has bullet points covering everything to sex to science — way too much to reproduce here. This post is far from comprehensive. I am writing several articles that address this subject in a far more directed and detailed way, but for now, this post communicates my general state of mind.

You, dear reader, are a human being. And as a human being, you are naturally curious, a little bit self-conscious, and maybe even competitive about sex. Fantastically unprofessional, soul-driven rant ahead. The fact that Slate filed this article in Women wants real sex Malin, their financial section, seems both nonsensical and ironically appropriate to me.

Because this is Women wants real sex Malin bait, plain and simple. The motive behind it has nothing to do with sexuality, curiosity or culture — it has to do with hits.

As it says, we, the dear reader, are human. The calculator feeds into the popular notion that numbers matter when it comes to sexual partners, and it does so in a way that is almost gleefully disingenuous.

Weissmann and Kahn site a study published this month in The Women wants real sex Malin of Sexual Behavior as the inspiration behind the calculator.

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But this calculator feeds into our insecurities about our partnered sexual pasts. Am I a slut?

Fuck if I care. For all that though, the calculator does one thing of legitimate sociological interest.

But is that impulse Malni or necessary? Either way, the false notion that the number of people in your history means anything will, once again, be reinforced. And yes, I know, maybe I need to lighten up. Maybe some people find this kind of thing fun. The last thing we Kinky oral for the lovely lady is an app to capitalize on the obsession. Things have been a bit serious around here lately, so I wanted to do something light and simple.

Setting aside the Women wants real sex Malin and delicious, how about we talk about lipstick and lingerie and that dress that makes you look like you belong in a Hollywood film.