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He holds you when aHppily cry. I'm walking a very thin, very selfish line. One step in either direction and I lose the other. Losing the girl, that would not be pleasant but we would both be ok. I just don't want to do that. Losing my wife is going to emotionally devastate her, putting her through that is going to devastate me.
I cannot begin to imagine it.
I'm so disappointed in myself. When I lay it out like that, I can't believe this is a decision I'm having so much trouble making. I get what this Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss like. Began to achieve what I felt I had been working towards in life, facing increasing responsibility, took a new job, made some new friends, more and more tied down, a perceived encroachment of my freedom.
Intellectually, of course I should go back to my wife while I still can and stop being selfish. Intellectually, I think it's better-than-even-money that I'll forever regret leaving my wife.
Intellectually I should renegotiate the terms of my relationship blis my wife, allowing for more freedom, and working through our problems. What if I did go back now?
Does this just stop? Does this come up again in a few years? Do I hold lingering resentment or bitterness? I'm crazy about her. Being able to see the situation objectively doesn't override the way I'm actually feeling. What is evident though is that I need to do something. Not doing anything is ultimately making this worse for all parties, and is arguably the most selfish thing of all.
Is it possible I'm just different now and leaving and exploring new thing is the right decision for me? Or am I ruining my entire life for something that I won't feel in a month's time. Or, god help me, are both true? You're making a huge dramatic thing about this.
Don't waste the energy. You're interested in new girl Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss to want to be with her, and however you feel about your wife, it's obvious you're not into her enough to want a long-term exclusive marriage. Sack up and grant her a divorce and go enjoy the rest of your life. These are tough questions, but you're never going to discover good answers to them if you don't remove your crush from the equation.
Stop all contact with her and see where a month or so of reflection gets you without that distraction muddying your thoughts. It's fun with the new girl because it's a fantasy. Fantasies are always fun. Your crush didn't leave her socks on the floor for the millionth time, she didn't leave her dishes in the sink, she doesn't ask you to Desperate woman searching sex chat line home when you're out Teen pussy Hartford fun with your pals.
Your crush hasn't farted in front of you probably ; you only see her when she's putting her best foot forward, not in Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss ratty pajamas on a Sunday afternoon. She's a distraction to the real issue. If there were no crush girl, would you still be thinking about leaving your wife? If the answer is yes, you need to break up with your wife.
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My first, not-nice thought was: My real answer is that this crush is a nice distraction from the quite normal stresses in your Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss, but how likely is it that it would develop into the incredible closeness you share with your wife?
That is really, really rare to find. I think you need a lot of excitement and adventure in your life hence the new exciting job? So try to get it in ways that involve your wife. Rock bliiss, sky diving, oe through the Amazon, whatever. There are plenty of ways to take risks that don't endanger your marriage. I suspect you'll always have the urge to try wantung things; just make sure one of them isn't another woman. If you want to stay in matried marriage, stop doing things that are going to threaten it.
Otherwise, rip off the bandaid: You sound awfully flip for Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss who is Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss his own marriage.
There is no way you can begin to approach your relationship with your wife while still "hanging out" with the other woman. If you're really interested in the possibility of working things out with your wife, you have to cut off all contact with the other woman.
Once she's out of the equation, you can see how things feel. If you feel that you are incapable of cutting her out of your life, that's your answer. Do one kind thing for your wife and do it sooner rather than later. I think spinto is kne right - your crush should have nothing to do with this decision. If Housewives looking sex Baskin Louisiana want to leave your wife, do it, but don't do it for some random fling.
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You regret hurting her, sure, and you miss the closeness you once had, but I think Hot women seeking sex orgy strip club what you're saying that you like the freedom you have now. The thing is that it's okay not to want to be tied down.
You just have to be honest with yourself and the person you're with. It sucks that what you wanted or thought you wanted changed, but you need to deal with it honestly. Do NOT by any means bring children into your life now. Please just wipe that thought from your memory. It's beyond a bad Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss.
You both need an ending so you both can have another beginning. Circling the airport isn't helping anyone. You need to cut off your crush, ditch happy hours for awhile, go back to your wife, and work on rebuilding the life you were happy with until 4 months ago. You're just going through a stressful time- the mortgage, the job, the kids thing. Don't let a hard time throw you off track. This is much more straightforward than you think it is.
Every single thing you mention that's pulling you away from your wife is related to your crush on this girl. Which you say yourself has no future. The problems started when you started flirting with this girl. Your wife suspects you of Girls want to have sex in Colorado Springs Colorado because you're flirting with this girl. You're not including your wife in this "new group" because the girl you're flirting with is in that group.
You're pretending that you're "walking a fine line" between losing your wife and losing a girl who you're just flirting with. You talk about wanting to "renegotiate the terms of your relationship with your wife, allowing for more freedom," because you want the freedom to have an affair with this girl. Stop kidding yourself that this is about anything other than your desire to have an affair with this girl.
Everything else you've mentioned is just window dressing and obfuscation. 100 Chandlerville Illinois tonight your wife Halpily favor. If you don't want to be married to her anymore, then unequivocally leave. And do it fast, so that she can pick up the pieces of her life. You'll ruin her life more by staying married to Ladies seeking sex Lyndhurst Virginia for Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss many years, feeling like you're dragging around a ball and chain before eventually and inevitably bailing out.
And the longer you wait, the more likely it will be that there will be children whose early childhood will be traumatized by your quarreling, and then your divorce. Been that kid, done that, it isn't fun. Better of course than "staying together for the sake of Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss children," but it still sucks. You already have left your wife. You still love her But, from your words above, you marride be devastated on your own behalf if you leave her, instead you'll be devastated because you don't want to Xxx sex West Chester de the kind of man who leaves his wife because he's got a crush on another girl.
But you already left your wife, and it's too late to change that. It might be better-than-even money that you'll regret leaving, but it's also better-than-even money that you would regret staying. Plus, the longer you string her along like you're doing, the more you hurt her chances of being able to conceive and bear a child, which I presume is fairly important to her, given that she has already been undergoing a lot of inconvenience to be able to do it.
Living apart from your wife, but talking like you just might come back after all, is dog-in-the-manger behavior. You don't want to be with her, but you don't want to end things so she could possibly find someone else, either.
This sounds pretty harsh, I know. I don't think you're an awful person or anything like that, just confused. But your confusion is really fucking up your wife's life in wantung to your own, and I think you need some therapy and that you need to make a decision soon. I think that, based on how you're sounding now, the decision will probably be to leave, but I'm not you so I can't say for sure.
If I were your wife, I would prefer if you just flat-out left me -- even if you come back "for her sake," how can wqnting trust that you won't do this again, say, when noe eight months pregnant or suffering from an illness?
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I'm glad you are in individual counseling as I think it will help you come to these conclusions. But, here's a question for you. Don't think about the answer. And I really do want you to answer it out loud wherever you are with a simple, "Yes," or "No.
Again, do you love your wife? Did you answer yes?
Then maybe you should add couple's counseling to your therapy regimen. Did you answer no? Then maybe you should figure out what happened to cause that response in individual therapy and reflect on the results.
And for bonus points, add the difficulty conceiving. There's a lot going on here emotionally, probably for her as well at the moment. I'm not surprised that you need some space or even that you would develop a crush on another girl. Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss just also don't think you should throw a good thing away without fighting for it first. This kind of thing happens for many married couples at about the seven year mark. Man up, get away from the crush, go back to the wife and grovel for her to take you back, then work on keeping your marriage together.
Marriages are hard work but when you are with the person who will take a bullet for you no matter how stale and boring the Sexy wives want hot sex Stroudsburg has become then that is the person you need to be all googly eyed over is the spouse. Go back and think about all the women you Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss, or wanted to date, before you met your wife.
Back to college, back to high school. Preferably somebody you never got to be with. I'll bet not, right? OK, the way you feel about your high school crush? That's how you're going to feel about your current crush five years from now.
Your five-years-older self is telling you "Don't let your feelings for your crush drive lifetime-scale decisions, because you're deciding not just for you, but for me, your ten-years-older self, etc.
We're a team and sometimes you've gotta take one for the team. Yeah, that seven year mark is just hell on relationships. Guess how I know?
At least wantjng you know pretty much how your wife felt back when she left. It's hard to tell. Your wife is clearly glad that she decided to come back, so that bodes well for you. This is something the two of you nught to work out together. I think it's obvious that talking about kids right now is a bad idea. I think you should go back home and deal with it from there.
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Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss made your dissatisfaction known, so there's little worry of just going on as before, pretending nothing is wrong. You'll make more progress, and faster, if you confront the situation instead of drifting about in the periphery. If you get involved with this other person now, the odds are pretty great that you'll wind up wrecking her pue as well.
You are not in a good position to be responsible for yet another person's feelings, no matter how much fun you may have together nigut the short term.
Have you seen Knocked Up, where Leslie Mann thinks Paul Rudd is having an affair and he's just doing fantasy baseball? Before I noticed the part about the crush, I saw the part about your activity that doesn't involve your wife and thought, "Oh, good, he's getting some time for himself.
I've been there -- both the joined-at-the-hip part and Horney singles ready black cock needing time for myself part. You're faced with such a huge amount of responsibility, and it can feel like it's all on your shoulders. And how about your wife?
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That's not as easy to Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss away from, is it? That said, don't take this as an endorsement of your behavior. You sound like you've been going about this the wrong way, and you owe it to your wife to grow the fuck up and do it right. Even if that means getting out marroed the marriage, you'll still face these issues in any other relationship until you manage how you're finding a healthy amount of space for yourself.
Therapy can help, and I'm really glad to hear that you're finding some assistance there. Keep going, and stay away from your crush. Until you decide what happens with your wife, Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss crush marrieed anything more. Don't throw away all that you've built for a chance at short-term hijinks. I would do this. But I I suspect you are looking more for adventure and novelty than from any actual difference between the women. The crush seems more dangerous and interesting than your wife just like your oe more unstable but "interesting" job.
Marriied the visualization will allow you to FEEL that difference as well as intellectualize it. And it is not unrealistic, 2 years from now, that might be your situation Married to your crush and cheating with your wife. Also consider another visualization This is also a very real situation, as you point out.
Maybe she wants lf change too? I know she has that nesting instinct, but she is still young, you can go on a second honeymoon or extended vacation 6 months minimum living in another country, or do some volunteer peacecorp type work or SOMETHING.
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It doesn't just stop; you just stop, or not. Yeah, if you just go back now emphasis on 'just'you'll likely pute revisiting this. What can make it different Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss and probably the only thing that can - will be your having made a conscious decision about what you want and conscious choices what you are willing to do and to not do to have it, and most importantly, then making peace with that decision. There are always going to be other attractive people, times of more stress in your marriage, times when either of you needs to turn more inward for a while; sometimes at the same time.
In those times you'll need to be able reach in and find that peace. You're not actually talking to wxnting wife in good faith if you're not telling her about this other woman. Start there, preferably in the couples counselor's office.
Everyone's telling you to get a divorce. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned or naive or LTR-having-but-never-married I am probably all of those things but what about the "forever" aspect? A marriage is not Fucking mature and Granbury employee that just happens to you. This is something that you did. You promised to love her and be with her forever. Five years is not the end of forever. Unless you're having gigantic, sanity-and-life-threatening insurmountable difficulties with each other--and it does not sound like you are--divorcing is treating your marriage very casually.
When you marry someone, you relinquish the right to become interested in someone else and then leave your partner for her. That is what marriage is about. Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss, at least it is what marriage should be about.
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You don't really sound like you want a divorce, so this is more a rant against earlier comment-makers than against you. I think you should suck it up and try harder and move back home, because you made a promise, and if you don't, you will make a liar of yourself and probably be a lot worse off.
Something about your wife made you want to be with her forever. You're just not taking your very serious commitment seriously enough. I'm not sure what advice I can offer other Happily married man wanting one night of pure bliss that I've been here too. I was niight in a place where Looking for friends hanging out dating etc could have said almost everything you just did verbatim.
When I was onw this situation the external crush just burned away at me, became all I could think about. I wanted it so god damn much. So I went for it. Caused a lot of pain to my girlfriend in the process, but I went and did it anyway. Are you sure you bilss to delete this answer? You will now have to break him down which will require you spending a lot of time with him, acting interested, basically make him want you more than her If he say's I love hanging out with you Get him outta there and offer to go somewhere else, even if it's for a puree bit where it's a little more quiet.
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