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5 Steps To Hack and Heal Female Sexual Desire This post is rated “PG” so feel free to skip to the rest of the Bulletproof blog if you don't want to read it. An extract from What Do Women Want? Daniel Bergner: 'Women's desire is an underestimated and constrained force' Meredith Chivers, a psychologist trying to discover this, carried out research using a plethysmograph. Expectations are the driving force behind our emotional state of being. It's not unreasonable for you to expect your partner to take care of her If you want to eliminate pain and pressure in your relationships then start by sitting without your woman and that you must appease her every wish and desire.

But "What Do Women Want?: Adventures in the Science of Female Desire" by journalist Daniel Bergner uses groundbreaking sex research to show the ways in which our supposedly enlightened society still has female sexuality backward -- completely, utterly, profoundly.

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I desire a woman who wants to be taken by force The book, which grew from a xesire New York Times Magazine cover story inreveals how gender stereotypes have shaped scientific research and blinded researchers to evidence of female lust and sexual initiation throughout the animal kingdom, including among humans. Bergner, and the leading sex researchers he interviews, argue that women's sexuality is not the rational, civilized and balancing force it's so often made out to be -- that it is base, animalistic and ravenous, everything we've told ourselves about male sexuality.

As one researcher tells Bergner of all the restrictions White man fuck indio girl on female sexuality: Because the drive must be so strong to override all of that. The implications are huge. As Bergner puts it: This book -- how do I put this without sounding hyperbolic?

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What are the main bits of wisdom about female sexuality that you took away from writing this book? The science behind that is flimsy, circular.

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Deidrah, a rhesus monkey, a womam of the species that we sent into desite in the '60s as our doubles, to see how well we would survive, is one of my favorite characters in the ne.

I went down and spent a while at a primatology center with a scientist who was trying to take the blinders off the way we see the sexuality of our closest ancestors. And what I learned was that for decades, despite evidence to the contrary, scientists had painted primate sex as male dominated. Males are the initiators; females the sort of almost indifferent receivers.

But standing next to this scientist Kim Wallen, it was clear that that was not at all true -- almost comically so. We spent a Local sex Creston Washington following Deidrah, a relatively tranquil, low-key female monkey, who was nevertheless relentlessly stalking -- sexually stalking bf her object of desire.

So that was ny example of our blindness to female sexuality and, ultimately I think, our fear of it. One of the scientists, who was really influential in calling attention to the size, put it this way: That is, women are all about reproduction and men are all about sex. Again, a complete distortion.

At one point in the book, researcher Marta Meana shows you a pair of joke control panels -- one with an on-off switch, the other with tons of knobs. These were meant to represent male and female desire. Is female sexuality really that much I desire a woman who wants to be taken by force complicated that male sexuality?

Of course it does for all of us, men and women. But I do wonder whether that metaphor has much more to do with the force of culture and if, fundamentally, female desire might be Askov Minnesota grannies sex contacts straightforward.

Some of desirre evidence suggesting that female sexuality is stronger than is typically suggested is based on plethysmograph a tool used to measure vaginal blood-flow and lubrication studies showing that women become physically aroused to a much wider array of visual stimuli than men even as they subjectively report a much smaller range of arousal.

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But what of the hypothesis presented by researcher Meredith Chivers, that vaginal lubrication might not be a reliable measure of female desire, that it is a separate forcce, an evolutionary adaptation, meant to protect females from sexual violence and bodily harm? If this proved to be true, what would it mean for all these plethysmograph studies?

So, let me pause and try to be coherent. But, I think that both Meredith and I have started to wrestle with a simpler interpretation: On the subject of I desire a woman who wants to be taken by force and sexual assault, and the fact that, also in the lab, women are responding generally to scenarios of sexual assault.

Number two is, there are different levels of desire and San jose anal sex fantasy, and you know, fantasy and sexual assault in one form or another are pretty common, but does that mean that any of us want to go out and be sexually assaulted?

The realm of arousal and the realm of fantasy can tell us something about ourselves psychologically without indicating that we really want dho experience that thing, far from it. Since we're on the topic of rape fantasies, can we talk about why they are so common among women? So that's one reason. Another, which Meana brings up, and which I think is very compelling, is this idea that the feeling of being desired is a very powerful Tuscola TX sex dating, a very electrical one.

That brings up another theory, which is that there's something "narcissistic" about women's desire.

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Can you explain the thinking behind that idea? I think that was one of the things I wrestled with most in the book, and I can still visibly remember wrestling with it as I was turning in final chapters. I kept thinking back to Deidrah, our monkey, wojan thinking, OK, that is not a sexuality that seems to depend on being desired.

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But on a sexual level, women are even less suited to monogamy. Partly, I do think that, ironically, has to do with the force of culture. Now that would take us to a really complex part of neuroscience that maybe is best left for wman time.

It did strike me while reading the book that some parts might be fairly alarming for male heterosexual readers. I think maybe it should be. I just had two funny conversations—one with a male writer, a friend of mine, who said that reading the book had inspired deep concern, and another from an editor who said that it had scared the bejesus out of him. This is the question you're probably most resistant to answering, but are there any lessons in your research for couples attempting long-term monogamous partnerships?

That said, two things. The simple thing is, I sometimes think we have to be a little braver about just caring more.

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