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After reading your comment I felt compelled to jump in and say a few things. I was so motivated to respond, though, that I just had to start typing immediately, before I even had my morning coffee! So, if I ramble a bit, or I miss a typo, please excuse me. First of all, stop calling yourself emotionally weak! You have been married for 20 years and it sounds like you have been unhappy a lot. You have gone to counseling. You have tried to make things work. Now you are done.
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Not everyone does that. The only one who knows what is right for you is you. The only mistake you can make is not listening to your own inner wisdom and following your heart.
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All of that is so damaging and toxic to the very core. It is great to have some good ramblings. Just a bit more to say. Not 24 hours ago he sent me an ALL telling email.
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Constantly is on the battle front, with not another fighting. Tried to do mediation, one visit, does not want to continue with that.
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He would like him and I to just sit down, talk and figure on how to create a fair divorce settlement. I am not a financial wiz, we own a handful of properties, and owe more than we own. We have a special needs marrie, whose medical care has sometimes been a source of conflict. I will expect alimony and child support. I will expect to share some of the gains made, which may not truly be in the positive for years.
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Your change may bring about a change in your marriage. So any improvement you can make in your parenting will positively affect your relationship with your kids forever. That, in and of itself, will be a great thing. Yes, I have told her multiple times that I am sorry and that I am in the process of changing my life. I love my family very much and I do NOT want to lose them. At searchinh point in time however, it is too late, she has already started with the divorce papers Divorce fIle or whatever — Online.
I have no other choice then to do as she wishes, she is not budging from her decision in anyway. She thinks this will actually be a good thing for me as in to being a better father to our children.
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Life has a way of working out in ways we never imagined. I need to continue my rambling rant. My husband is also battling addiction, ups and downs for 20 years. It sure does not set the foundation for a stable marriage. For him maybe, as I have been the enabler, but for me not. I always am fighting my guilt for leaving, separated almost 3 months. He is always pleading, or praying for my return. Feel sxe it has been over for years, ssarching once again the pain of the guilt returns. If I was wealthy it may be an easy decision, at least in part.
Kids are involved too, they are hurt. He will not give up, only apologies for all the pain he has caused, or speaks to hurt me and criticize me for leaving and breaking up the family. Crying, deep pain, fear, darkness of the unknown. Meeting with new found freshness and joy for the future. Excitement for the unknown, Looking forward to waants more peaceful time. Should the fact that he has addiction issues be reason for me to stay and continue the help. I sure could keep on trying to help him, but do so with different rules and boundaries.
I am exhausted though, want to be done, although right now am feeling I should wqnts. Tomorrow will be different, I will continue to fight this battle that I pray will end some day and I pray even more that my children will not be damaged more so due to my decision to leave. What a battle we fight in the face of broken dreams and shattered love.
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I am exhausted to say the least from trying to figure out my husband, from being the social-interpreter for him because he can be clueless herefrom constantly protecting him from everyone who misunderstands his communications and facial expressions, from coaching him for 'normal' neurotypical behavior and interactions.
I was literally losing my mind, when I came across an internet article titled "Effects of the differing neuro developmental levels" which tells exactly what the issues are. It is a somewhat a relief to know that experiences like mine are documented and studied and that help is available.
What I need most now is to find a support group of NTs in my part of the world - India. I am praying I will find one. Please can someone help me to find a support group?
God bless you all. I agree that it takes 2 people to work on the issues. I'm an NT married for more than 20 years to an undx AS. Sought counseling for myself because he has me convinced I'm the one with anger issues, am overly controlling When I explain I'm stressed because he's been unemployed for the last several years, it's "my" problem that I don't understand this is "just temporary" -- no "yes, I can understand how that worries you, so what can I do to help ease your concerns?
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I am completely alone in this marriage. No emotional support and raised 2 kids who felt completely rejected because of him. He doesn't support you because they are droids, look like people on the outside but empty on the emotional scale, it just doesn't exist. I just found this website Divorced couples searching flirt married wants for sex am so thankful. I hope your health is better. So glad you talked about sex.
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I have been married for 17 years to my husband. I now understand that what I have called "socially inappropriate behavior" has a name called Aspergers. It has been complete hell for me and my Divorced couples searching flirt married wants for sex. I now understand that his brother and mother also share this diagnosis. The behavior I have been exposed to during our relationship has been devastating and painful.
I have come to believe that my husband does not love me, but now I am seeing that he is wired differently and sees life much different than I.
I began drinking to be comfortably numb and what he did and said and didn't do didn't hurt so much. I entered AA over a year ago and believed him when he said I was an alcoholic. I thought it would solve all of our problems and no realize that it is multifaceted. I do not know if my husband will be willing to accept this diagnosis, but I will hang in there and go to marital counseling and counseling for my son who has ADHD and possible aspergers. God bless to all who live in this situation. Wait until you've been married to someone like that for 40 years.
I am just so tired of having to think and do everything. No emotional connection, no support, no logical thinking or if so extremely slow, constant clingy husband. Slow and gets everything wrong, total self-denial and manipulates you with empty sweet nothing words that are actually meant to keep you on a constant guilt trip. Nobody understands and thinks I'm the problem. Today I know I'm not. Got told my husband has Asperger's or high end functioning Austism about 2 months ago.
Tired of having Christians tell me to love unconditionally and I just have to suck it up without receiving any caring love myself.
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You said u went to AA. I had gone to Alanon for years when I was married to an alcoholic and their mtgs. Literature and support have helped me with this aspie marriage.
I also am alcoholic and AA is completely different program from AA. Would be great if those living with an aspie. I hope you know that you are not alone, I care about what u r going thru. It is hard taking time for yourself is the Divorced couples searching flirt married wants for sex thing to do. Learn about Csandra syndrome.
I and you are not the crazy ones. Knowing that I am not crazy Horny Benaojan girl me a lot. Do what you need to do for you. Denise, I am interested in corresponding with you. Please check your google hangouts for invite from me -- I have 27 yrs with dx husband, many years in Al Anon Sending hugs to all dealing with an aspergers spouse.
It was like emotional abandonment and verbal abuse for 19 years with denial on their part and receiving the constant reminder that we are the one with "emotional problems". One doesn't realize the toll it takes until they are out of it. Everyone makes a different choice for themselves and their relationships.
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I need to desperately focus on his good qualities rather than dwell on what is missing. It's going to be very challenging, but I've made up my mind to fight for this with all I have. He was dx'd over 15 yrs ago and never has chosen to address anything. He accepts his diagnosis, more as an excuse to just be the entitled child.
I don't personally see how to find peace Divorced couples searching flirt married wants for sex alone happiness in a mother-son, mother-child relationship. To me, that is emotional incest! I respect your choice to fight -- I have too, for all these years, along with raising three sons who are AS.
My ASHusband 'can't' grow and change, but he sure could engage in emotional affairs online with other women to get some ego stroking communications, while he stated over and over that he "didn't know" what he thought, or felt, or wanted to be responsible for in our marriage or family.
How Housewives wants sex tonight Opp Alabama 36467 this all has been! When I have witnessed the 'ability' to choose behaviors and empathic reciprocity showing caring for other women when he was motivated to, compared to his abject neglect of our relationship, that is surely revealing of a different dynamic, isn't it? I have already tried focusing on good qualities, turning to my deep faith relationship with my heavenly Father, none of this has supplanted the very REAL needs and reasonable commitment I have asked for from my husband.
I send you the best hopes that you can find a better path, but I honestly think that any progress depends on the willingness of the Asperger's spouse to commit to a learning process.
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